# Life Lessons from "Kurious" by Cirque Du Soleil: Insights and Reflections
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Chapter 1: The Awakening of the Observer Within
Experiencing a live show, particularly in a vibrant city like London, often brings a sense of anticipation for joy and laughter. It’s a chance to give your mind a much-needed break from the daily grind. However, there’s a unique sensation that can arise when the performance begins and captivates you entirely.
In that moment, clarity strikes like a bolt of lightning, akin to a refreshing cup of coffee. Colors become more vivid, voices resonate clearly, and you may feel an unexpected detachment from those around you, despite sharing in the collective experience. You remain in awe of the spectacle before you, thankful for the opportunity to witness such artistry. Yet, your role shifts—you're no longer just an audience member but an engaged observer.
Have you ever encountered this phenomenon? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.
Whenever colleagues approach me for advice, it’s as if my observer mode is activated. I share my perceptions and feelings candidly, sometimes with a touch of sugarcoating, but always with a warning about the possible sugar rush they might experience. To my delight, everyone returns with gratitude.
This insightful gift, I believe, is one that my beloved daughter has instilled in me.
Chapter 1.1: Observing Human Behavior
Living as a keen observer of people for decades has enriched my understanding of human interactions. I never anticipated that attending a mesmerizing show like "Kurious" would trigger such deep reflection. It's essential to clarify that I have no affiliation with the show; I simply wish to honor their immense talent and dedication.
Here’s what "Kurious" taught me:
- Persistence in Excellence: Continue your craft regardless of immediate audience reactions. Sometimes, even when your performance is top-notch, it takes time for the audience to warm up. This notion resonates with insights from Jessie J's interview with Tom Bilyeu, where she highlights that consistency and excellence are rare, even among the famous. The audience may initially be quiet, yet if you maintain your professionalism, their appreciation will eventually shine through.
- Stay Unshaken: Commit to your path because it's right, not based on others' approval. Your confidence in your work is essential. After extensive practice, showcase your expertise with poise and don’t expect immediate feedback. Silence can indicate deep focus rather than indifference, especially when building complexity.
- Engage with Your Audience: Involve your audience in the narrative you create. When individuals feel included, their interest naturally increases. Approach this interaction with warmth and encouragement, as it fosters openness.
- Value of All Roles: "Kurious" is visually stunning, yet the unseen musicians in the background received thunderous applause. Their contributions were felt even if not seen, demonstrating that every role, visible or not, holds significance. Excellence in supporting roles cultivates skills for future leading opportunities.
Chapter 1.2: Embracing the Supportive Role
Life has taught me the importance of supporting roles. While I naturally gravitate toward the spotlight, I’ve learned to appreciate the quiet strength of those who shine in the background. Encouragement can help individuals reveal their true potential.
Being my daughter’s mother has imparted invaluable lessons. Engaging deeply in something greater than oneself can lead to profound transformation. However, this path is fraught with challenges and possible failures, which can be soul-crushing. Accepting all outcomes is a crucial aspect of this journey.
- Team Dynamics: The spotlight is always shifting. When it’s your turn, give your best, but be ready to step back and support your teammates when the focus shifts away from you. Humility and readiness to adapt are key.
Chapter 2: The Essence of Leadership
- Servant Leadership: Throughout the "Kurious" show, the lead singer often took center stage but never overshadowed her colleagues. Instead, she acted as a conductor, guiding not just the music but also her teammates' performances. Her role exemplified support and upliftment.
I express my heartfelt gratitude to the Cirque Du Soleil team for the invaluable lessons imparted through their art. Thank you, dear reader, for joining me on this journey. I hope these reflections resonate with you!
Amanda
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