Finding Joy in the Journey: 4 Reasons I'm Content Without My Goals
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Chapter 1: Embracing the Moment
Here I am, just a regular day enjoying time with my five-year-old daughter, who loves to playfully attach clothespins to my hair. This playful moment embodies why I chose to leave my corporate marketing job after fifteen years. It wasn't specifically about clothespins, but rather the desire for more time with my children and the chance to pursue my passion for online writing.
As the new year brings resolutions and aspirations, I find myself with goals I aim to reach. However, there's another side of me that is genuinely content with not having achieved them just yet. Let me explain—it's all about ANTICIPATION.
Anticipation fuels my inner drive. With each goal I set, a spark ignites within me. My aspiration to succeed as a writer keeps that flame alive. I don't know how this journey will unfold. Will I earn a living from my craft? Will I build a readership? Will clients come my way to support my dreams? This uncertainty fills me with anticipation.
As I embark on this journey, I envision what success will look, smell, and feel like. The energy propelling me to write feels like a rejuvenating second wind in life—a chance to redefine what I want to be when I grow up. It’s a fresh start, offering opportunities for self-discovery.
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Section 1.1: Getting Comfortable with Discomfort
As a newcomer to freelance writing—and indeed, to self-employment—I find myself in uncharted territory. Since my first job at sixteen, I always had someone to report to. Now, I'm learning to embrace discomfort. I no longer hold a senior position; instead, I feel like a fresh graduate eager to gain experience.
Putting my writing out into the world is daunting, but the supportive comments and claps from readers on platforms like Medium bolster my confidence. The uncertainty surrounding my writing also serves as motivation to keep creating. If not achieving my goals means embracing discomfort a bit longer, I'm all for it. This feeling of stepping outside my comfort zone propels me forward.
Subsection 1.1.1: The Value of Learning Through Exploration
Section 1.2: The Lessons of Uncertainty
The most effective way to learn is to chase a dream you once deemed impossible. Reflecting on my life five years ago, I never envisioned myself working at this desk in the corner of my bedroom. I was too cautious, too fixed on what my career should look like.
Writing professionally? That seemed far-fetched—a risk I was unwilling to take. Yet, through this uncertainty, I am discovering that life can exist beyond the confines of corporate schedules. I'm gaining insights into entrepreneurship, the nuances of working independently, and a glimpse into the life of an online writer—a world I previously knew nothing about.
Not yet meeting my goals fuels my desire to continue learning, and I am grateful for this journey.
Chapter 2: Taking Risks and Living with No Regrets
The first video titled "Here's Why You Haven't Achieved Your Ultimate Goal | Brian Tracy" offers insights into why many of us feel stuck and how to shift our mindset towards achieving our aspirations.
The beauty of not meeting my goals at this moment is that it motivates me to take risks and assure myself that I've truly tried. For someone who previously approached decisions with caution, this newfound willingness to take chances feels liberating.
I'll never have to look back and wonder if I did enough, as I'm wholeheartedly giving writing a genuine effort. Regardless of the outcome, I'll gain experiences that will forever shape me.
There's a profound beauty in confronting the unknown, and I cherish each day of this journey. These reasons for not yet achieving my goals reinforce my ambition and remind me to savor each moment.
Today is not merely a day to be rushed through or dismissed; it's an opportunity to celebrate the writing journey while I continue to climb. After all, what is the reward if you haven't faced the challenges along the way?
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The second video titled "Why Can't I Achieve My Goals" delves into the barriers that hinder our progress and offers strategies for overcoming them.