Embrace Wonder: Slow Down to Experience Life Fully
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Chapter 1: The Beauty of Contemplation
Have you ever found yourself in a moment of quiet reflection, perhaps admiring nature's beauty, and felt a surge of inspiration that could transform your perspective? I believe that within our minds, the universe, or by divine guidance, exists an endless source of creativity and amazement, which presents us with opportunities for profound change. Yet, we often overlook these extraordinary moments.
Inspiration from an Unexpected Source: The Gaming Industry
When a game developer launches a new racing game, meticulous attention is given to its physics, gameplay mechanics, and visual elements. Beyond just the intricate designs of the racing cars on a digital circuit, the entire environment is crafted with impressive realism.
The artists behind these games infuse beauty into their creations, ensuring that even the skies, sunrises, and sunsets are rendered with exquisite detail. These vibrant and lifelike backdrops often go unnoticed because they are not the focal point of our gameplay.
Why does this happen? It’s simple: our primary goal is to win. We push our cars to their limits, weaving through competitors with a single-minded focus on survival and victory.
In the realm of racing games, we rarely take the time to reflect. We don't ponder our surroundings; we just play to achieve success. How many of us approach life in a similar manner? We don't just play to win; we strive to win in our careers, relationships, and beyond. We call this pursuit "success" in the real world.
But how often do we actually attain that corner office or marry our high school crush? Only one percent of us may find ourselves among the wealthy elite, which means the vast majority are caught in a relentless race that may never yield victory if worldly success is our only motivation.
In our pursuit of achievement, we miss the beauty crafted by countless artists—the digital clouds moving gracefully, the colors blending across the sky, and the stunning transitions of light throughout the day. These elements serve as the backdrop to our frantic race.
We can easily feel inferior if we don’t come in first in a competition that seems endless. The digital sky symbolizes the daily wonders and transformative ideas that surround us, which we often overlook as we push ourselves to the brink of exhaustion.
To break free from this "winning" mentality, we must ask ourselves: How can we change our approach to life?
We need to shift our focus from winning to experiencing. When we are fixated on winning, we miss out on being present in our relationships and in the moments that matter most. We might promise to spend quality time with our children after securing a promotion, only to find that they have grown up and left by the time we achieve our goal.
By moving from a mindset of winning to one of experiencing, we open ourselves to discovering new insights and opportunities for growth. We learn to seek moments of connection, whether with others or in solitude at a serene location.
As we cultivate this practice, I believe that a calm mind, the Universe, or Providence can reveal more to those who live for experiences rather than victories.
A Mantra for Reflection
The late Huston Smith, a celebrated author, often invoked a meditation that resonates deeply here. Although it originates from Biblical scripture, feel free to craft your own.
Instead of racing through life, he advised:
(foot slightly off the accelerator)
“Be Still and Know that I am God.”
Then he continued:
(decelerate further)
“Be Still and Know.”
(further slowing down)
“Be Still.”
(full deceleration)
“BE.”
By practicing this mantra, you will begin to notice the beauty around you as others speed by, chasing after that elusive one percent. In these moments, wonder can emerge, insights can flow, and genuine relationships can flourish. Wisdom lies hidden within these moments.
To quote Ferris Bueller:
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
This should be the guiding principle for every game developer working on atmospheric visuals, and it can serve as our motto as well.
As I have embraced this mindset in my own life, I’ve come to appreciate not only the beauty of the world around me but also attained some of the financial success typically associated with the one percent. This has led me to inspiring individuals who challenge my perspectives. I now value success more deeply, finding peace rather than always striving for the next achievement.
In Conclusion
The next time you find yourself immersed in a racing game, take a moment to recognize the artistry that enhances your gaming experience. Then, set down the controller and take a moment to appreciate the real sunset, contemplating what the true Creator may offer when you allow yourself to simply "Be Still," or even better, just "Be."
Live inspired.
Chapter 2: Video Inspirations
The first video, "JJ Heller - Hand To Hold (Official Music Video)," beautifully captures the essence of connection and support, reminding us of the importance of being present with loved ones.
The second video, "Dermot Kennedy - Without Fear (Audio)," encourages us to embrace life without hesitation, further reinforcing the message of living fully in the present.